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What to Do When You’re Married to a Passive Man

If you’re the wife of a passive husband, you know that it can be frustrating. You want him to take more action! You want him to take more initiative! You want him to be the man! Well, first, let’s...

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What to Do When Your Husband is Depressed

Helping your depressed husband is not for the faint of heart. {Tweet This} We know that. And we don’t want to make light of how challenging it can be. But we do have some ideas to help you help him,...

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Keeping Your Expectations Flexible in Marriage

Let’s face it: None of us knows on our wedding day what life will throw at us over the years. It’s great to have high, clear expectations going in. But it’s equally important to be able to roll with...

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5 Signs of a Bad Marriage

A few weeks ago, I was sitting on the sidelines at my daughter’s lacrosse game when I witnessed one of the 5 signs of a bad marriage unfold before me. A mother sitting nearby was cheerfully watching...

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A Simple But Powerful Prayer for Your Marriage

There are times in our marriage when we feel like so much is wrong, it seems like it will take years to unravel the mess and get back to something good. When we’re stuck in that mental mire, it’s hard...

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5 Things to Do If Your Husband Looks at Porn

There was a time when pornography was not a part of most men’s everyday lives. If a nice guy wanted to look at porn, he had to go into an adult bookstore or quickly ask for a “girlie” magazine in a...

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How to Be Strong When You Have No Choice

As much as I love my husband, our children, and the life we have together, there have been times I was unable to be the rock they needed me to be. Sometimes it was my faulty heart (I have a pacemaker)...

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4 Excuses Women Give to Avoid Working on Their Marriage

Doing what’s right and healthy in a relationship can be hard. As a therapist, I have come across many people who get stuck and end up not doing their part to make the relationship move in the right...

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Let’s Talk About Marriage Communication

Communication is the glue that holds a marriage together. {Tweet This} But I can tell you that during our 25 years of marriage, there have been countless times when Mark and I have come a little...

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What To Do When Your Marriage Has Grown Cold

How can you tell if your marriage has grown cold? When your husband gets angry with you, you just take it. You say to yourself, It’s not worth fighting and I just don’t care. When you’re excited about...

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How to Rebuild Trust in Your Marriage

Trust is a vital part of marriage. It can be shattered by broken promises, addictions, or infidelity. Unfortunately, as a therapist, I’ve had a lot of experience helping couples rebuild trust in my...

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Solutions to 5 Big Marital Issues

Good news! Most marital issues can be fixed—really! It only seems like they’re broken beyond repair. The key to fixing marriage issues is the combo approach of wanting to fix them and actually taking...

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3 Signs of a Self-Centered Spouse

You hear a lot of talk today about how entitled kids act. They seem to feel like they deserve more stuff, more deference, more freedom—often without more work. The problem with self-centeredness is...

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3 Ways to Watch Your Mouth in Marriage

I knew I was saying too much as the words came out of my mouth. I knew I needed to watch my mouth, end the conversation, and try again when I had a better grip on my tongue and my mind. But I didn’t. I...

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Why You Need to Break Down Walls in Your Marriage

Many people have walls in their marriage. These emotional walls block their spouse from getting too close. They keep secrets protected and the ugly parts hidden. Walls give a sense that you are...

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Should I Get a Divorce?

As I was writing about a marriage issue for iMOM, I stumbled upon a question a lot of women were asking online — should I get a divorce? Before you answer that question, and before we give you our...

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Can This Marriage Be Saved?

Marriage struggles can be crippling. It often feels like living with a roommate and constantly wondering if it will ever get better. You may even question: can this marriage be saved? As a therapist, I...

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3 Signs You’re a Controlling Wife

My husband and I were picnicking with my daughter and her family one bright, sunny day in Colorado.  My mood was upbeat.  The crisp mountain air filled my lungs with refreshed energy as I lifted my...

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The 5 Secrets Men Keep

I used to think men were pretty simple creatures– and that I could read my husband easily. But then I came across something written by marriage expert, author, and radio host Stephen Arterburn, and I...

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3 Easy Solutions for When Your Man is Being An Immature Husband

They pout when they don’t get their way. They scream when they’re overly tired. They refuse to listen when they’re angry. We must be describing toddlers, right? Umm, no. Unfortunately, that’s also the...

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What to Do If Your Husband is Watching Porn

Did you catch your husband watching porn or find porn sites in his browsing history? As a wife, I understand this can make you feel angry, hurt, betrayed, or discouraged among a range of other possible...

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What To Do When You and Your Husband Want to Vote Differently

He likes Trump; she doesn’t. She wants to vote for Hillary; he can’t believe it. Politics, especially in light of the recent climate, can affect relationships. This election cycle has been particularly...

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“I Love You But I Don’t Like You Right Now”: How to Improve Your Marriage

A friend of mine loves her husband. She knows he’s a good man overall, and a good father. He doesn’t have any glaring issues — no addictions, no affairs, no spending problems — but sometimes, she tells...

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4 Ways to Respond When Your Husband is Angry

A good friend of mine is married to a man with a quick temper. She says it’s not easy when he gets angry, especially because she still has children in her home. She describes her husband like this: “If...

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4 Communication Habits to Avoid in Your Marriage

As a therapist, I watch couples communicate all day, and often have to teach people how to undo their unhealthy communication habits. “I feel like he doesn’t even hear me.” “When we fight, we never...

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4 Simple Steps to Conflict Resolution in Marriage

Mark and I do not have a conflict-free marriage. In fact, as I watched this role play, in the conflict resolution video below, I was convicted because this exact scene just played out for real two...

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3 Communication Tools Your Marriage Needs

When my husband and I first got married, we really struggled to communicate with one another. He had a passive style of communication and was a verbal processor, while I processed everything internally...

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Solutions to the Top 5 Marriage Issues

My husband and I have experienced at least 4 of these 5 common marriage problems. If that’s you too, take heart: every marriage has issues. The good news is that by being proactive instead of reactive,...

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4 Ways to Overcome Problems In Marriage

I’ve been reading a really great marriage book (I’ll share the title with you at the end of this post). I wanted my husband to read it too, and he actually started it. After a few days I noticed that...

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3 Ways to Support Your Stressed-Out Husband

My husband has been stressed out lately. And it has gradually snowballed into other areas of our lives. His stress created stress for me, which also put pressure on our relationship. Then it felt like...

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Bad Attitude: Is It Killing Your Marriage?

Can a bad attitude really kill your marriage? Yes! Attitude affects the way we communicate with our husbands; so if our attitude towards him is negative, then we will sound negative when we’re talking...

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Feeling Bored with Your Marriage? Here’s How to Change It

My friend’s grandparents just celebrated their 70th wedding anniversary. Seventy years together is quite the accomplishment, especially in this day and age. I imagine there must have been times during...

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5 Secrets Spouses Keep That Hurt Their Marriage

“Houston, we’ve had a problem here.” ~ Jack Swigert, astronaut on Apollo 13 The explosion seemingly came out of nowhere. The Apollo 13 spacecraft was in its second day of travel, cruising easily to the...

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7 Threats to Your Marriage

In his new book Kingdom Marriage, Tony Evans talks about a couple who came to him for marriage counseling. The couple came in with a handwritten list of problems that they needed to work out. As he...

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4 Ways to Fight Fair in Marriage

Mark and I recently did a weekend marriage conference. We had just completed a session about how to fight fair in marriage when a young, newly-married couple approached me during the break. The moment...

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8 Challenges Every Marriage Will Face

I have seen many newlyweds start their lives together under the blissful delusion that they will never face any problems in their marriage. Unfortunately, that is never the case, and not having a...

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5 Signs You’re Emotionally Mature

I should’ve known better. I was pretty old when I got married so you’d think I would’ve already learned to have something that’s very crucial in a good marriage — emotional maturity. Alas, I did not. I...

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Is This the Root Cause of Your Marriage Problems?

Have you ever thought that love and hate are two sides of the same coin? I might have at one time, but marriage has taught me a lot about love. Hate is not the opposite of love, being selfish is the...

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5 Reasons Husbands have a Difficult Time with Emotional Connection

Darren and Heather Turner never thought they would have marriage problems. After all, they were supposed to be helping other couples. Darren was a chaplain in the Army and Heather was involved with...

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How to Survive Being Married to an Addict

A woman may stay married to an addict for many reasons. Maybe she’s afraid she won’t make it financially. Maybe she has young children and dreads taking them away from their father. Or, maybe she loves...

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Feel Like Giving Up? 9 Quick Reasons to Stay Married

A couple I know is getting divorced. Neither of them cheated on the other, and there were no big issues like addiction or abuse. The wife said the husband just wasn’t helping out when she was at work...

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5 Healthy Ways to Disagree but Protect the Relationship

As a counselor, I work with couples struggling in their relationship. Oftentimes, the reason they need a mediator is because disagreements have turned to defending their opinion instead of protecting...

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6 Ways to Respond When Your Husband Annoys You

Lately, when my husband gets home from work he goes straight to the couch where he opens his laptop and stays until dinner; and then after dinner, he goes back to the couch and computer until bedtime....

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Do You Think You Need to Call a Timeout in Your Marriage? (4 Things to Know)

A marriage timeout is different from the timeouts moms use in parenting. A timeout in marriage is more like a timeout in sports—a way to regroup, cool off, and think about how to move forward. “Take a...

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Winning the Battle in Marriage but Losing the War

There’s an old 80s song called Love is a Battlefield, and some days it feels like that’s true. Okay, I’m joking, but love, and marriage, can sometimes feel like a battlefield. In fact, having a strong...

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My Husband Cheated

My husband cheated. “What? That’s not funny…wait…” Those were the first words I uttered when my husband confessed his unfaithfulness. I refused to believe it was real because MY husband would never do...

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Online Affairs: The Struggle is Real

How did I get here? It was the question that reeled in my mind as I sat on my bed weeping. My husband’s side of the bed sat cold and empty. You see, eight months prior, I worked as a social media...

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Ways to Tell if You’re Having an Emotional Affair

Have you ever caught yourself wondering if he is more than a friend? You aren’t having sex with him, but you feel closer to him than other guy friends. If this sounds like one of your friendships with...

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3 Mistakes I Made in My First Marriage

Was my first marriage a mistake? No. Did I make mistakes? Absolutely. In fact, as we were going through the divorce process and having some very honest conversations, I asked my ex-husband to tell me...

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Talking to Your Husband About His Time-Sucking Hobbies

Remember the weekends when you and your husband could do whatever you wanted? Ah, those were the days. He could play basketball with friends Saturday afternoon while you worked out and had girlfriend...

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